3 13 Do not wonder, brethren, that the world hates you. 3 14 We know that we have passed out of death into life, because we love the brethren. He who does not love abides in death. 3 15 Anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. 3 16 By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. 3 17 But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him? 3 18 Little children, let us not love in word or speech but in deed and in truth.